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		<title>Please, Interrupt Me</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Apr 2010 10:50:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dami</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I wish I had more time. I find myself saying this quite often. You would think this meant that I am using the 24 hours I have been blessed with properly, but that&#8217;s not the case. You&#8217;ll see why after reading this. Check out the screenshot (from about 2 weeks ago) of my web browser. [...]]]></description>
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<blockquote><p>I wish I had more time.</p></blockquote>
<p>I find myself saying this quite often. You would think this meant that I am using the 24 hours I have been blessed with properly, but that&#8217;s not the case. You&#8217;ll see why after reading this.</p>
<p>Check out the screenshot (from about 2 weeks ago) of my web browser.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://greenandgraymatters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Screen_1.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-501" title="Screen_1" src="http://greenandgraymatters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Screen_1.jpg" alt="" width="598" height="263" /></a></p>
<p>From the top left corner going clockwise: <strong>Twitter</strong>, <strong>Facebook</strong>, <strong>GMail</strong>, <strong>ING Direct</strong>, <strong>Ohio University</strong>, <strong>Facebook </strong>(<em>Again</em>), <strong>CNN </strong>and <strong>ESPN</strong>. This means I check my bank account quite often. <em>I think sometimes I believe watching each cent will make them grow. Hasn’t worked for me yet, but I digress . . . </em></p>
<p><em><span style="font-style: normal;">Each time I open my web browser, I am greeted with these 8 big squares and the events that unfold are quite predictable. I check out Facebook (</span><span style="font-style: normal;">why do you think it shows up twice)</span><span style="font-style: normal;"> and probably realize it’s someone’s birthday. I go to their wall to say “Happy Birthday” and then I realize they have put a few pictures up and I check those out and leave a few comments, then I respond to previous comments on my wall etc. Before I know it, 20 minutes are gone. Even a “safe site” like CNN chews a chunk of my time unexpectedly. I find myself going from looking at the top news of the day to watching a video about <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LKEbw09xcbg" target="_blank">a barking man</a>, which then leads me to other videos and on and on it goes.</span></em></p>
<p>Here’s another screenshot from my phone and the time wasters are there again: Echofon (Twitter for the iPhone), Facebook and Email.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://greenandgraymatters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Screen_2.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-502" title="Screen_2" src="http://greenandgraymatters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Screen_2.jpg" alt="" width="256" height="384" /></a></p>
<p>These  screenshots mean one thing: I am <strong>begging</strong> to be interrupted. The blue Facebook icon is telling me someone wants to <em>friend me</em>, my email notification is <em>singing melodies</em> in my ears and the orange glow from the ING Direct logo is <em>beckoning me</em> to click it.</p>
<p>In the end, I had clear out my history and then I made my phone icons less accessible by moving them away from the home page. In addition, I don’t open my email box for a few hours when I am at my desk and I turn off the sound on my phone for a few hours while at the office. All these are tiny changes, but now it takes more than 1 second for me to visit Twitter and I can usually stop myself before I do. This doesn’t mean I don’t tweet or facebook anymore, but now I do those things when I am ready to go on a break as opposed to responding to every single notification or stimulus. I am fast learning that as good as connecting to people is, it is more important to not let connections become more important than doing the <strong>real work</strong>. Any good thing can become bad if overdone.</p>
<p>Next time you find yourself wishing you had more time, have you asked yourself if there are small time-wasters that are eating away at your time currently. What about wishing you had more money? Have you asked yourself if you have <a href="http://greenandgraymatters.com/2009/08/18/where-is-my-money-going/" target="_self">plugged the money sinks</a> you currently have? It might be time for a good ol&#8217; self-examination.</p>
<p><strong>PS. If you checked out the video of the barking man, did you find yourself also checking out other videos? </strong></p>



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		<title>How I Saved Up for a Ring In One Year – Details</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Apr 2010 06:57:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dami</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The bare-bones details of the steps I took in taking money from varying investment vehicles to save up for the engagement ring. This is a follow-up to the video from the previous post]]></description>
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<p><em><strong>This is a follow-up to the </strong><a href="http://greenandgraymatters.com/2010/04/08/saving-for-engagement-ring-video/" target="_self"><strong>previous article</strong></a></em><em><strong> and </strong><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DONpz3xVEyg" target="_self"><strong>video</strong></a></em><em><strong> (1,613 views at the time of writing) I made. I provide more insight into and reasons for the steps I took to save up enough for an engagement ring.</strong></em></p>
<p>For a moment, let&#8217;s separate the idea of getting engaged from purchasing a ring. Although there are issues concerning the origin of diamonds and whether getting an expensive ring really means anything (a la Kobe Bryant scandal), I see this ring as a sign of my commitment to my girlfriend as the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with. So the whole process of saving held an additional meaning: I wasn&#8217;t saving to buy an item for my own enjoyment, I was taking a step on the road to building my legacy <em>by starting a family.</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em><a href="http://greenandgraymatters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Details_1.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-483" title="Details_1" src="http://greenandgraymatters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Details_1.jpg" alt="" width="400" height="400" /></a><br />
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<p>In the past, I had tried multiple times to save money for a rainy day. The figures were usually round numbers like $500 or $1000. Somehow, before I reached my target amount, something always came up. With this in mind, I knew the plan that I was going to undertake had to have some sort of <strong>penalty for early withdrawal</strong>. Secondly, because of my current position as a graduate student, I wouldn&#8217;t be able to put away huge chunks of money. Therefore, the plan had to be one where I could save in <strong>bits and pieces</strong> over a period. Finally, I needed to be still be able to retrieve all the money I put in at the end of the year. Therefore, I had to use <strong>safe investments</strong> capable of providing relatively good yields.</p>
<h3>Investment 1: Savings ($100/month)</h3>
<p>The first thing I discovered was the Suze Orman <a href="http://saveyourself.com/aboutplan/page1.html" target="_blank">Save Yourself Account</a>. To be completely honest, I can&#8217;t remember how I found it and I wish I could give credit to the site or where I stumbled on it. Suze Orman is one of the most popular Personal Finance Advisors in America. She&#8217;s written <a href="http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=ntt_athr_dp_sr_1?_encoding=UTF8&amp;sort=relevancerank&amp;search-alias=books&amp;field-author=Suze%20Orman" target="_blank">multiple books</a> full of basic tips in establishing a sound and solid financial foundation. <em><span style="font-style: normal;">Essentially, the account is an FDIC insured account (meaning if the bank failed, <a href="http://www.fdic.gov/deposit/deposits/insured/basics.html" target="_blank">your money was insured up to $250,000</a>) and </span></em>$100 was  <strong>automatically</strong> withdrawn from your account at monthly intervals. After 12 months, you were credited with $100. <em><strong><span style="font-style: normal;">Short and Simple.</span></strong> </em>The money was insured and I was assured of making $100 at the end of a year. The catch: you couldn&#8217;t withdraw the money before the end of 12 months and the withdrawals were made at the same time every month. As a person wary of automatic withdrawals due to fear of being overdrawn, I created an additional account in ING Direct and labelled it &#8220;Investment Transfer&#8221;. Everytime I got paid, I would immediately transfer $100 to that account in preparation for automatic withdrawal. Therefore, this plan satisfied the <strong>penalty clause</strong> (no bonus if I took the money out beforehand), <strong>small investments</strong> and <strong>safety net</strong>.</p>
<p><em>Sidenote #1: I got the 8.33% mentioned in the video by $100/$1200 * 100%. </em></p>
<p><em>Sidenote #2: If you ever setup an automatic withdrawal and you are afraid that you might overdraw like I was, you can apply a similar method of making withdrawals from an alternative account instead of your checking account. Keep in mind that bank savings account only allow a maximum of 6 monthly withdrawals. </em></p>
<h3>Investment 2: Mutual Funds ($120/month)</h3>
<p>At the time when I was  beginning to save for the ring, the stock market was doing terribly. The <a href="http://money.cnn.com/data/markets/dow/">Dow Jones Industrial Average</a>, which is used as a marker for how the stock market is performing, was below 8,000 (<em>Prior to the recession, it was around 10,000 and is now at 11,006</em>). I&#8217;ll start by saying that at the time of investing, I was quite clueless on investing but I was beginning to read the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Four-Pillars-Investing-Building-Portfolio/dp/0071385290/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1271137789&amp;sr=1-1" target="_blank">Four Pillars of Investing</a> and one of the many things I learned was that the best time to invest in the market (with a long-term vision) was when it was doing poorly. Since financial markets go through cycles, catching the market when it was low provided opportunity for growth. <em>In order to preserve the length of this article, I won&#8217;t go into explaining investments in detail but will save it for a later date. </em>In summary, I was planning on saving for a mid-range goal 1-2 years so I chose to invest in a mutual fund (not attached IRA). I used <a href="https://individual.troweprice.com/public/Retail" target="_blank">T. Rowe Price</a> because they were the only company I found who would let me invest a minimum of $50 per month as I wasn&#8217;t sure I could invest more than that (I later increased this amount to $120).  I divided my investment as $50 to an index fund (<a href="http://www.google.com/finance?client=ob&amp;q=MUTF:PREIX" target="_blank">PREIX</a>) and an $70 to actively-managed fund (<a href="http://www.google.com/finance?q=MUTF:RPBAX" target="_blank">RPBAX</a>).</p>
<p>A screenshot of my account as of December 2009 is below.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://greenandgraymatters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Details_2.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-486" title="Details_2" src="http://greenandgraymatters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Details_2-1024x543.jpg" alt="" width="717" height="380" /></a></p>
<p><strong><em>Notice how market fluctuation added about 9% (again because of how poorly the market was doing when I started)</em></strong></p>
<h3>Investment 3: Tax Refund</h3>
<p>This was relatively simple. Every year, I file my taxes as soon as my W-2 and bank statement is available (Jan/Feb) and I had my refunds direct deposited into my checking account. As a reminder, <strong>the deadline to file federal taxes is this Thursday April 15th</strong>. Just go to the <a href="http://www.irs.gov/efile/article/0,,id=118986,00.html" target="_blank">IRS website</a> to see where you can file your federal taxes online for free if you make less than $57,000 (<em>Students fall into that category for sure, unless of course you are the new <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mark_Zuckerberg" target="_blank">Mark Zuckerberg</a></em>).</p>
<h3><strong>Summary</strong></h3>
<p><em>Essentially, armed with <strong>the information</strong></em><em> from books and websites, the <strong>small steps</strong> instituted to growing the funds,  and <strong>a purpose and commitment </strong></em><em>that was bigger than a temporary want, I was able to save up for something I considered very essential. You may not be saving for a ring, but something equally important to you. Don&#8217;t try to do it all at once if you can&#8217;t afford it, but you should start. Small grains end up adding up.</em></p>
<h5><em>Image courtesy of </em><em><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/8011986@N02/" target="_blank">Brooks Elliot</a></em></h5>



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		<title>How I Saved Up for a Ring In One Year &#8211; Video</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Apr 2010 07:24:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dami</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A 2 minute video explaining my journey towards saving for a special kind of rock]]></description>
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<p>Almost a month ago, J.D. Roth over at <a href="http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/" target="_blank">Get Rich Slowly</a> started sponsoring <a href="http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/videocontest/2010" target="_blank">a video contest</a> asking readers to turn in a tip or a financial success story. When I revived this blog last week, I mentioned that I had been able to save up for a ring and I would be sharing the story of how it happened. Well, here is the first part of that story condensed into a 2 minute video.</p>
<p>Confession #1<em>: <strong>I have never done a video blog before this</strong></em></p>
<p>Confession #2<em>: <strong>I have never saved this amount of money at one time before</strong></em></p>
<p>Confession #3: <em><strong>I wondered if sharing this would ruin the surprise of the actual moment</strong></em></p>
<p>With that being said, I hope you enjoy the video. <em>It will be the first time some of you are hearing or seeing me and I must say that the still picture here doesn&#8217;t create a great first impression <img src='http://greenandgraymatters.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':-D' class='wp-smiley' /> . </em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">[There is a video that cannot be displayed in this feed. <a href="http://greenandgraymatters.com/2010/04/08/saving-for-engagement-ring-video/">Visit the blog entry to see the video.]</a></p>
<p>Next week, I will provide a detailed article explaining the products I used in this video and why I went the route I did.</p>



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		<title>2009 Report Card</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Apr 2010 10:18:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dami</dc:creator>
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<p>In 2009, I set a <a href="http://greenandgraymatters.com/goal-report/2009-goals/" target="_self">bunch of goals</a> for myself in different areas of my life. Now is time to see how well I did.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://greenandgraymatters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Grade.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-454" title="Goal Report" src="http://greenandgraymatters.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Grade.jpg" alt="" width="220" height="330" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Financial Goals (<span style="color: #993300;">2.5/4</span></strong><strong>)</strong></span></p>
<ul>
<li>Reduce credit cards with a balance from 4 to 2: <strong>Ended with 3 cards having a balance &#8211;&gt; <span style="color: #ff0000;">Fail</span></strong></li>
<li>Save $1000 in a high interest rate savings account for Emergency: <strong>Saved up to $700 and then used it to by a ticket to travel to Nigeria &#8211;&gt; <span style="color: #800000;">Partial Success</span> (Was used for an emergency, but didn&#8217;t hit the mark of $1000)</strong></li>
<li>Open a <a href="http://saveyourself.com/aboutplan/page1.html">Suzy Orman Save Yourself Account</a> to which I put $100 a month for 12 months and I get $100 at the end of the 12 months: <span style="color: #00ff00;"><strong><span style="color: #008000;">Success</span></strong></span></li>
<li>Open a <a href="https://individual.troweprice.com/public/Retail">T Rowe Price Mutual Fund Account</a> (<a href="http://www.google.com/finance?q=MUTF:RPBAX">RPBAX</a> and <a href="http://www.google.com/finance?q=MUTF:PREIX">PREIX</a>) so I could catch the market as it was coming back up: <strong><span style="color: #008000;">Success</span></strong></li>
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<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Review</span>: I was able to venture into investing by setting up mutual funds (which appreciated) and put money away into the Savings Acccount from TD Ameritrade. However, I didn&#8217;t curb my debt as much as I should have. My debt was  exacerbated by the fact that I had to use a credit card to pay for expenses to travel home. I can&#8217;t complain though, I hadn&#8217;t been to Nigeria in 7 years (because of school schedule) so it was worth it. However, I wouldn&#8217;t have had this issue if I had built up enough of an emergency reserve in the first place. Zone in on credit card debt in 2010.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Career Goals (<span style="color: #ff0000;">2.5/6</span></strong><strong>)</strong></span></p>
<ul>
<li>Write two academic papers: <strong><span style="color: #008000;">Success</span></strong></li>
<li>Submit papers written with <a href="http://deepi-asyoulikeit.blogspot.com/">lab mate</a>: <strong><span style="color: #008000;">Success</span></strong></li>
<li>Write proposal: <span style="color: #993300;"><strong>Partial Success</strong></span> (completed the proposal but part of my project changed hence a revision was required)</li>
<li>Defend proposal. Fall 2009 : <strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">Fail</span></strong></li>
<li>Comprehensive Exam. Winter 2010 : <strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">Fail</span></strong></li>
<li>Dissertation. Spring 2010 : <span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Fail</strong></span></li>
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<p><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Review</span></span>: <span style="font-weight: normal;">One thing I have avoided doing my whole graduate career, is the writing of my proposal. Each time I visualize writing it, it just picture a terrible chore and I lose motivation immediately. It&#8217;s part of the reason why I never got to finish my proposal on time. If I had finished earlier, then my project would not have been revised and I would have moved on to the rest of the checklist. This pushes my graduate career back by about a year, but this is an area to zero in on in</span><span style="font-weight: normal;"> <span style="font-weight: normal;">2010</span></span><span style="font-weight: normal;">.</span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Health Goals (<span style="color: #993300;">1.5/3</span></strong><strong>)</strong></span></p>
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<li>Don&#8217;t drink soda: <strong><span style="color: #008000;">Success</span></strong></li>
<li>Complete <a href="http://www.beachbody.com/product/fitness_programs/p90x.do?code=P90XDOTCOM">P90X</a>: <span style="color: #993300;"><strong><span style="color: #993300;">Partial Success</span></strong></span> (only did 45 days)</li>
<li>Sleep 6 hours: <strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">Fail</span></strong> (I struggle with this still)</li>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Review</span>: I succeeded in stopping my over-consumption of soda. I started off P90X very excited and as time went on I slowly digressed. It began with missing one day, then 2 days in a row and then trying to catch up. Finally, I stopped and gave the excuse that I was focused on writing my proposal. <em>File this under the B.S. I tell myself.</em> The problem I encounter with exercising is that I have always been skinny (due to a high metabolism) and this hasn&#8217;t helped me to be motivated at all. It&#8217;s like telling an athlete to budget. It&#8217;s relevant, but one doesn&#8217;t see the <strong>immediate need</strong> because there are no alarms yet. This is something I have to work on in 2010 as well. As far as sleep goes, that has always been an issue with me because I can be an insomniac (<em>my friends would call that an understatement). </em>I am still not sure how to deal with this. <strong>Suggestions anyone?</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Personal Development Goals (</strong><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">9/24</span>)</strong></span></p>
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<li>Read 1 book per month (4 out of 12)</li>
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<li><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Team-Rivals-Political-Abraham-Lincoln/dp/0743270754/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1251861200&amp;sr=8-1">Team of Rivals</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Six-Day-Financial-Makeover-Transform-Your/dp/0312377746/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1251861240&amp;sr=1-1">The Six-Day Financial Makeover</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Founding-Brothers-Revolutionary-Joseph-Ellis/dp/0375705244/ref=ed_oe_p">Founding Brothers</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Four-Pillars-Investing-Building-Portfolio/dp/0071385290/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1251861409&amp;sr=1-1">Four Pillars of Investing</a></li>
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<ul>
<li>Listen to 1 motivational tape per month: (5 out of 12)</li>
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<li>How To Master Your Time by Brian Tracy</li>
<li>Success and the Self-Image by Zig Ziglar</li>
<li>The Science of Personal Achievement by Napoleon Hill</li>
<li>Powerful Time Management Skills from Franklin Covey</li>
<li>The Millionaire Next Door by Thomas Stanley and William Danko</li>
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<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Review</span>: This is an area where although I got below 50%, I was pretty excited. A lot of the material I was trying to consume was hard to read and rather than fill in the space with fluff, I decided to  slug through it (especially Four Pillars of Investing). I will be toning down the amount of material in 2010 and to ensure that I understand what I am reading, I will also start doing some reviews on here as well.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Lessons and Outcomes</span></strong></span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #000000;">Some things worked quite well (savings and personal development) and others not so well (credit reduction and career advancement). I reached for the stars and I landed on grass instead with a below average score. </span></p>
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<li>This is the first time I have kept track of my goals from the start to end of the year. It has been a very helpful experience</li>
<li>As I focus <strong>more attention </strong>on one goal, another will most likely suffer e.g. while I was focused on writing my proposal, I stopped listening to audio tapes and reading non-fiction. While this would signify progress, it also meant I wasn&#8217;t taking the breaks I needed to take</li>
<li>While I stopped drinking soda, my coffee consumption went up.</li>
<li>Even with the plans I made, some things were still difficult to do e.g. working on my proposal.</li>
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<p>Overall, I had issues with balancing one goal with another: savings vs debt, reading academic vs non-academic material, curbing an addiction vs creating another. Were my goals too high? No I don&#8217;t think so. How else could I have kept myself aiming high if the goals weren&#8217;t remarkable for me? I do understand that these goals might not even be close to relevant for others, but hopefully you can look at the areas of your life you want to touch and outline a plan.</p>
<h2 style="text-align: center;">OVERALL GRADE: <span style="color: #ff0000;">15.5/37 (42%)</span> &#8212;-&gt; <span style="color: #ff0000;">FAIR</span></h2>
<p>We&#8217;ll see how I do in 2010. <em>I will put this up at a later time, also giving the opportunity for anyone interested to map out their strategies for the rest of 9 months.</em></p>
<h5>Image courtesy of <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/andrew_wertheimer/" target="_blank">wertheim</a></h5>
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<p>Hello World</p>
<p>For most of you that have subscribed, this is the first post you are getting from me since you started reading my blog. It&#8217;s been 6 months since I wrote any articles at this website and it is unfortunate that this has been the case. I want to first of all apologize because in writing this blog, I expected consistency from myself and I have failed in that. I&#8217;m hoping that after this post you will still come back and keep reading.</p>
<p>Why did I call this the end of the beginning? It&#8217;s because the first 3 months of blogging for me were an experience that although enriching, was just the beginning of this journey. The reason for starting this blog has always been to share with others my journey through the financial waters. I hoped that in sharing that journey we can all learn a better and more appropriate way to treat our finances. In addition to this, my core belief is that you can&#8217;t separate your financial growth from personal growth because they they often occur together. They are like a couple, if one grows and leaves the other behind, sooner or later there will be regression. I will explain this in a series of posts called &#8220;Time is Money.&#8221; However for growth to happen, it has to be slow and steady. As such, this is the first step (the end) in a series of steps to continue the growth (the beginning) that started last year.</p>
<p>In the coming weeks, I will be going through the Goals in my<a href="http://greenandgraymatters.com/goal-report/" target="_self"> Goal Report</a> and how far I came in the past year (including how I was able to save enough money for a ring). <em>Sidenote: It&#8217;s the first time I have saved that amount of money and I can&#8217;t wait to share it with you.<br />
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